24 Hours to a Healthier, Happier, More Energized You

How to Be Healthier

A Healthier and Happier You in 24 Hours


Hey, friends, let’s do a fun little mini-challenge. One day next week, spend the entire day honoring your body, mind, and spirit. Think of it as a little refresh, or, for those of you looking to get out of a funk or start living a healthier life, a pain-free way to jumpstart your new healthy habits!


How to Have a Healthier Morning:


First thing’s first—lemon water!


First thing in the morning, I want you to chug down your lemon water! Making lemon water is easy. All you have to do is squeeze half a lemon into about 6 ounces of warm water. By drinking warm lemon water, you kick-start your metabolism, alkalize your blood (which means more oxygen to your cells) and hydrate your body.


 Related: Why You Should Drink Lemon Water Every Morning


Before you start your day, set an intention for the day, and say an affirmation. Lately, my go-to daily affirmation has been, " You are on the right path. You are where you need to be." Choose one that resonates with you.


As you sit down to enjoy breakfast, take five deep breaths. By practicing deep breathing, you are sending oxygen to your cells and resetting your nervous system.


Related: Clean Eating Breakfast Ideas and Recipes


If you have time, do a short mediation session.


Related: How to Meditate Even if You’ve Never Meditated Before


As you have your breakfast (see the fabulous smoothie recipe below), savor every sip. Be present in the moment.


Related: Start Your Day off Right with a Morning Routine



How to Have a Healthier Day:


Let's fast forward to that mid-morning stomach grumble when you usually dash to Starbucks for a latte and a muffin. But today, you won’t, because you knew you were going to do this challenge today, and you prepared the night before. Make sure you have planned for your day by pre-preparing healthy snacks so you won’t reach for junk. 


Related: Choosing Clean-Eating and Healthy Snacks


Being in the moment is key to being happier and fulfilled. Today, avoid eating at your desk, or multi-tasking while eating. Before you dig into the lunch you’ve prepared earlier, give yourself a moment to reset the nervous system, so take five deep breaths before you enjoy your delicious meal. See the recipe ideas at the end of this post for a healthy make-ahead lunch idea.

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 Related: How to Learn How to Be in the Moment and Live with Intention



Are you feeling relaxed yet? You are halfway through your 24-hour transformation, and you are doing great. Make sure you chew your food, and don’t overeat. You need at least 30% of the space in the stomach for optimal digestion.



Now you are nearing the afternoon, when many people get tired, but you. Not today, lady. Get moving for 5 minutes. If the weather permits, take a stroll outside. If not, walk the hallways, or do a few short flights of stairs. Anything that will bust you out of the blahs, do it!


Related: How to Have More Energy Every Day


How to Have a Healthier Evening:

The most important thing to remember when switching from day mode to evening mode is to not drag your daytime troubles and stresses with you into your evening. Evenings are for caring for yourself, your family, and calmly preparing for the next day. Take a minute to think about the day and how you can leave it behind you. Did somebody upset you today, or are you feeling content? Tap into whatever you are feeling and be present for this feeling. And then, let it go. Say goodbye to it for today, and if necessary, come back to it tomorrow.


If you need to take an extra few minutes of alone time, do so. Remember, we must take care of ourselves before we can take care of anyone else.

Do you see how different life can feel with a few small changes?  It’s about managing your vital life force and taking mini-breaks to tune in to your true self.


We are moving out of the emergency state into a calm existence where you can access true freedom in your body and mind.


Related: 5 Self Care Activities for Women Who Don’t Have Time for Self Care

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Tonight, I want you to do something nice for yourself.

Self Care Ideas:

·      Reading a book

·      Watching your favorite TV show

·      Having a bowl of coconut milk ice cream with some dairy-free chocolate chips

·      Enjoying your favorite herbal tea with a spoonful of honey

·      Taking a luxurious bath or a long shower

·      Watching a good movie

·      Rubbing healing oils on your body

·      Saying some extra affirmations or watching inspiring YouTube videos

·      Calling a loved one to catch up





Makes 1 serving


1 cup hemp milk, coconut milk, or almond milk

1 banana 

1 cup frozen berries

1 large handful of spinach or kale

1 tablespoon ground flax seeds    

1/4 teaspoon cinnamon  

1 splash vanilla extract

ice (optional)

*Feel free to add some extra protein, such as PlantFusion, Sun Warrior, or Vega. 



Morning snack: 

10 walnuts and a green apple




Makes 2 servings

2 cups spinach

juice of 1/2 lemon

1 apple, chopped

1/8 cup pumpkin seeds

1/4 cup fresh berries of your choice 

2 tablespoons fresh parsley

1/4 cup diced red onion

sea salt and pepper, to taste

In a large serving bowl, add the spinach, the lemon juice, and your favorite dressing with a dash of sea salt. Massage until the spinach starts to soften and wilt, 2 to 3 minutes. Top with apples, pumpkin seeds, berries, onions, and parsley. You can also add an animal or non-animal protein if you would like.



Afternoon snack:

A piece of Ezekiel bread topped with 1 tablespoon of coconut oil, ½teaspoon of almond butter, and a dash of cinnamon.




Adapted from a recipe by Ina Garten 

Makes 3 to 4 servings

1/3 cup lemon juice, freshly squeezed 

1/3 cup extra virgin olive oil

1 teaspoon Celtic sea salt

1/2 teaspoon ground black pepper

1 1/2 teaspoons fresh thyme 
leaves, minced

1 pound boneless chicken breasts, halved and skin removed

1 head romaine lettuce, remove bottom and chop

2 large carrots, grated 
or julienned

In a medium bowl, whisk together lemon juice, olive oil, salt, pepper, and thyme to make a marinade. Place chicken breasts in a 9x13-inch baking dish, then pour the marinade over chicken, and refrigerate for 2 hours or overnight for a full burst of flavor. Heat grill and cook chicken breasts for 10 minutes on each side until cooked through. Cool chicken and cut diagonally into 1⁄2-inch thick slices.


Place romaine on a serving platter, and then top with julienned carrots and sliced chicken.

Why You Should Have a Positive Mindset if You Want to Be Happier

How can having a positive mindset help flip your life?

Positive Mindset

Too often we are focused on our external circumstances when we think about being happier. We will be happier when we get the kitchen renovated, get that promotion at work, or finally lose the extra fifteen pounds from that last pregnancy nine years ago. But, the truth is, none of those things have the power to make people happy. Instead, we just need to flip our thinking—aka our mindset! Only by having a positive mindset can you feel happier.


Your mindset has profound effects on everything: self-esteem, health, relationships, and careers. Your mindset is even more powerful than your circumstances in setting the course of your life, and in terms of how happy and content you feel.  Unlike random circumstances, mindset is something you can learn to control and change. With some specific activities and intentions, you can radically flip your reactions to common experiences in your life—all by flipping to a positive mindset.


But, as with any change, it’s tough. Every day we have to scroll though endless bad news in our social media feeds, or yet another natural disaster somewhere in the world. But what affects us even more is that nagging voice in our heads that are constantly whining, “I’m so tired,” “I’m fat,” “I don’t know what I’m doing.”

 Related: How to Be Happier Every Day

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And when you feel crappy, you radiate crappy, and you attract crappy. I’m sure you’ve heard of the Law of Attraction, that law that says your negative mindset will just keep attracting more negativity in your life. Well, it’s true. And once you focus on your mindset, you’ll see just how powerful the Law of Attraction is. So, stop using it against you, and start using a positive mindset as your tool to flip your life.


Sadly, we often miss seeing the wonderful things in our life.  You know the old saying, “Stop and smell the roses.” Well, do you? I mean seriously, do you? How often do you take a walk and truly appreciate nature? Watching the sunrise or the sunset is an awe-inspiring thing. It’s 100% free, and it happens Every. Single. Day. And yet, we miss it.

Why is it so damn hard to get into a positive mindset?

Journaling is a great way to focus on mindset

Journaling is a great way to focus on mindset

Because thought patterns are learned, and once they are ingrained in your mind, your mind tries to keep you in that space. The more you allow yourself to repeat negative thoughts, the more ingrained these thoughts become in your mind, and the harder it is to flip those thoughts and your mindset. If you want to flip your life, you must focus on cultivating a positive mindset, so that you can be happier and more content. And they way to do that is to train your brain. If you want a fit body, you need to train. If you want a fit mind, you need to train, as well.

 Related: How to Be Lucky Even if You Think You are Unlucky

But how? Well, I’m glad you asked. I’ve created a super-simple, 5-Day 40yearflip Mindset Challenge to get you flipping that mindset from negative to positive. It’s easy and painless, and totally FREE. And, it’s designed to make it easy for you to start focusing on mindset and actively working to flip that mindset from negative to positive.

If you want to create great things in your life, then you have to start by expecting yourself to achieve great things. Ready?  Let’s do this! Click on the link below to join, and an email from me will zoom straight to your inbox.


Clean Eating Vs. The Standard American Diet and How it Affects Your Body

Why Clean Eating Matters

Why Clean Eating Matters

1.   You are What You Eat


You know the old saying, “You are what you eat?” Well, have you really thought about what it is you are eating? The foods you take into your body to nourish and sustain you, are constantly being used by your body as energy—the energy to keep you functioning and moving, and the energy to keep you healthy, and regenerate your cells. Therefore, you really are what you eat.


2.   Your Body Needs Your Help to Detox


Yep, your body is always in detox mode, and was designed to detox itself. But all the chemicals, toxins, pesticides, plastic residues, preservatives that the average person brings into their body every day, has our natural detoxification system on overload.  We bring all these toxins in from breathing polluted air, constantly being in contact with chemicals and plastics, and from eating processed and unhealthy foods.


3.   How You Can Help Yourself


Well, as much as we’d like to, we can’t control the air we breathe. We can, however, limit our use and exposure of single use plastics. And, we can be mindful the products we use on our bodies by reading labels.


But most importantly, we can eat clean. When you practice clean eating, you are eating the foods your body is supposed to eat. Foods that your body’s filtration system is naturally able to filter and process, easily. This is especially important for those of you who often eat processed and fast foods. 

Related: How to Snack While Detoxing

A Day of Clean Eating Vs. A Day of The Standard American Diet (SAD Diet)

Clean Eating Breakfast:

Egg with Spinach and a Side of Blueberries

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2 eggs

½ tsp coconut oil

1 cup baby spinach

1 tsp feta cheese crumbled

Handful of fresh blueberries 

Salt and pepper to taste


Whisk eggs in a small bowl with salt and pepper. Add coconut oil to a medium pan until melted but not smoking. Add spinach and sauté for approximately 3 minutes until spinach has softened. Pour eggs over spinach and toss in feta cheese. Cook 3-4 minutes until eggs are at the desired stiffness. Serve blueberries on the side.



What your Body Needs to Process:

Eggs, Coconut Oil (*organic pressed refined coconut oil), Spinach, Feta Cheese (*cultured pasteurized milk, salt, black pepper, microbial enzymes), Salt and Pepper, Blueberries


Organic Coffee with Milk

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What Your Body Needs to Process:


Coffee and Milk

Related: Clean Eating Breakfast Ideas and Tips


SAD Diet Breakfast:


Starbucks Carmel Macchiato


What Your Body Needs to Process:


Milk, Brewed Espresso, Vanilla Syrup (sugar, water, unspecified natural flavors, potassium sorbate, citric acid), Caramel Sauce (sugar, corn syrup, butter, water, heavy cream, nonfat dry milk, natural flavors, salt, mono & diglycerides, soy lecithin, sulfites


Starbucks Morning Glory Muffin


What Your Body Needs to Process:


Enriched Flour (wheat flour, niacin, ferrous sulfate, thiamin mononitrate, riboflavin, folic acid), Sugar, Carrots, Eggs, Pineapple, Soybean Oil, Raisins, Pecans, Baking Powder (calcium acid pyrophosphate, sodium bicarbonate, corn starch, monocalcium phosphate, calcium sulfate), Unspecified Spice, Sodium Bicarbonate, Vanilla Extract, Salt, Egg Whites, Whey (milk), Soy Flour: contains: Wheat, Soy, Egg, Milk, Pecans.


Clean Eating Lunch:


Quinoa Salad


1 cup cooked quinoa (this is a great way to use up left over quinoa)

1 lime, zest and juice

2 ounces feta cheese, crumbled

Handful of cherry tomatoes, halved

 ¼ cup fresh parsley, stems removed and chopped

 sea salt and black pepper, to taste


Fluff the cooked quinoa with a fork and stir in lime zest, lime juice, feta cheese, cherry tomatoes, and fresh parsley until thoroughly combined. Season with sea salt and black pepper, to taste. 


What Your Body Needs to Process:

Quinoa, Lime, Feta Cheese (cultured pasteurized milk, salt, black pepper, microbial enzymes), Cherry Tomatoes, Salt and Pepper

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 Water with Lime and Mint


What Your Body Needs to Process:


Water, Lime Juice, Mint



SAD Diet Lunch 


Lean Cuisine Marketplace Sweet & Sour Chicken


What Your Body Needs to Process:


Cooked White Meat Chicken (white meat chicken, water, modified tapioca starch, Chicken Flavor (dried chicken broth, chicken powder, natural flavor), Carrageenan, Whey Protein Concentrate (soybean oil, corn syrup solids, sodium phosphate, salt), Blanched Whole Wheat Vermicelli (water, whole durum wheat flour), Broccoli, Water, Yellow Carrots, Red Peppers, Edamame Soybeans, Brown Sugar, Soy Sauce (water, wheat, soybeans, salt), Apple Cider Vinegar, Modified Cornstarch, Chili Garlic Sauce (salted chili peppers, salt), Garlic, Sugar, Rice Vinegar, Water, Modified Cornstarch, Acetic Acid, Soybean Oil, Sugar, Brown Sugar Syrup, Sesame Seeds, Dehydrated Soy Sauce (soybeans, salt, wheat), Potassium Chloride, Garlic Puree, Caramel Color, Sea Salt, Sesame Oil, Yeast Extract, Lactic Acid, Spice, Calcium Lactate


Arizona Green Tea with Ginseng


What Your Body Needs to Process:


Brewed Green Tea Using Filtered Water, Honey, Citric Acid, Ascorbic Acid (vitamin c), Unspecified Natural Flavors, Sucralose, Acesulfame Potassium, Ginseng Extract



Clean Eating Dinner


Salmon with Roasted Vegetables in a Balsamic Glaze

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Serves 2

2 Salmon Fillets

½ -pound bag mini sweet peppers, cut in half and seeded

½ -pound Portobello mushroom caps, sliced

1 medium red onion, sliced

1/2-pound Brussels sprouts, trimmed and cut in half

1 tsp garlic powder

1 tsp Italian seasoning

1 tsp coconut oil

1 tsp balsamic vinegar

Sea salt and black pepper, to taste



Add peppers, mushrooms, onion, and Brussels sprouts to a large mixing bowl. Add garlic powder, Italian seasoning, coconut oil, and balsamic vinegar and gently toss to combine. Season generously with salt and black pepper, to taste. 


Arrange seasoned vegetables on prepared baking sheet in a single layer, being careful not to overcrowd. 


Place sheet pan in preheated oven and roast for 40-45 minutes, stirring halfway through, or until the vegetables are tender and develop a nice caramelized color. Remove from oven and set to the side to cool. Serve with your choice of protein.


Salmon Fillets: Coat salmon with coconut oil, salt, and pepper. Place on a baking sheet in the oven and cook for about 20 minutes depending on thickness and desired taste.


What Your Body Needs to Process:


Salmon, Peppers, Portobello Mushrooms, Red Onion, Brussels sprouts, Garlic Powder, Italian Seasoning (marjoram, thyme, rosemary, savory, sage, oregano and basil), Coconut Oil* (organic pressed refined coconut oil), Balsamic Vinegar, Salt and Pepper


1 Glass of Your Choice of Red Wine and a Glass of Water


What Your Body Needs to Process:


Red Wine, Water


Clean Eating Dessert:


Why Clean Eating Matters

Luscious Lemon Drops

1 ½ cups almond flour

¼ cup coconut flour

¼ cup coconut oil

¼ cup organic lemon juice

¼ cup organic maple syrup

Zest of half lemon

½ tsp organic pure vanilla extract

Dash of salt

¼ cup of unsweetened shredded coconut (for garnish)

 Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.

Add almond flour, coconut flour, coconut oil, organic lemon juice, organic maple syrup, half of the lemon zest (reserve other half for optional garnish), organic vanilla extract, and salt to a food processor or blender (on pulse) and blend until a smooth mixture is achieved. 

Remove the mixture, put in a glass bowl and cover. Refrigerate for 15-20 minutes or until mixture achieves the consistency of raw cookie dough.

Measure out small amounts of mixture with a teaspoon or melon baller. Oil your hands with a small amount of coconut oil, and form each small teaspoon of mixture into uniform balls. 

Roll the balls in the unsweetened shredded coconut and the optional leftover lemon zest.

Line the lemon drops on the parchment lined baking sheet and refrigerate for 40 minutes.

What Your Body Needs to Process:


Coconut Flour, Almond Flour, Coconut Oil (organic pressed refined coconut oil), lemon juice and zest, pure maple syrup, organic pure vanilla extract (vanilla bean extractives in water and alcohol)


SAD Diet Dinner


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Pizza Hut Pepperoni Pizza with Cheese Crust


What Your Body Needs to Process:

Dough: Enriched Flour Bleached (wheat flour, malted barley flour, niacin, ferrous sulfate, thiamin mononitrate, riboflavin, folic acid), Water, Vegetable Oil (palm, canola), Yeast, High Fructose Corn Syrup, Dough Conditioners (DATEM, calcium sulfate, ammonium sulfate, potassium iodate, azodicarbonamide, ascorbic acid, enzymes), Soybean Oil, Sucrose. 


Cheese Crust: Mozzarella Cheese (pasteurized milk, cheese cultures, salt, potassium chloride, enzymes), Modified Food Starch, Flavors, Nonfat Milk, Part Skim Mozzarella Cheese (pasteurized milk, cheese cultures, salt, enzymes), Modified Food Starch, Whey Protein Concentrate, Nonfat Milk, Sodium Propionate (added as a preservative)


Sauce: Tomato Paste, Water, Salt, Spices, Garlic Powder, And Citric Acid, Ham (water added cured with sodium lactate and sodium diacetate, salt, sodium phosphates, sugar, sodium erythorbate, sodium nitrite) Beef (water, textured soy protein concentrate, soy protein concentrate, hydrolyzed soy protein, hydrolyzed corn and wheat gluten, salt, maltodextrin, sodium phosphate, autolyzed yeast extract, dextrose, soybean oil and cottonseed oil, natural and artificial flavors), BHA, BHT, citric acid, disodium inosinate, and disodium guanylate) 


Pepperoni: pork, beef, salt, spices, water, dextrose, oleoresin of paprika, flavorings, lactic acid starter culture, sodium nitrite, BHA, BHT, citric acid)


Diet Coke


What Your Body Needs to Process:


Carbonated Water, Caramel Color, Aspartame, Phosphoric Acid, Potassium Benzoate, Natural Flavors, Citric Acid, Caffeine



SAD Diet Dessert:


Breyers Oreo Cookies and Cream Ice Cream


What Your Body Needs to Process:


Almond Milk (water, almonds), Liquid Sugar (sugar, water), Oreo Cookie Pieces {unbleached enriched flour [wheat flour, niacin, reduced iron, thiamine mononitrate (vitamin B1), Riboflavin (vitamin B2), folic acid], Sugar, Palm Canola Oil, Cocoa (processed with alkali), High Fructose Corn Syrup, Leavening (baking soda and/or calcium phosphate), Cornstarch, Salt, Soy Lecithin, Vanillin - An Artificial Flavor, (chocolate), Coconut Oil, Corn Syrup, Pea Protein, Vegetable gums (carob bean, guar), Mono And Diglycerides, Natural flavor (coconut)




Clean Eating Total Ingredients to Be Processed by Your Body:



Almond Flour, Balsamic Vinegar, Basil, Black Pepper, Blueberries, Brussels sprouts, Cherry Tomatoes, Coconut Flour, Coconut Oil (*organic pressed refined coconut oil), Coffee, Cultured Pasteurized Milk, Eggs, Garlic Powder, Lemon Juice and Zest, Lime Juice, Marjoram, Microbial Enzymes, Milk, Mint, Oregano, Organic Pure Vanilla Extract, Peppers, Portobello Mushrooms, Pure Maple Syrup, Quinoa, Red Onion, Red Wine, Rosemary, Sage, Salmon, Salt, Spinach, Thyme, Water



SAD Diet Total Ingredients to Be Processed by Your Body:


Water, Carob Bean, Carrageenan, Carrots, Cheese Cultures, Chicken Powder, Chocolate, Citric Acid, Citric Acid, Cocoa (Processed With Alkali), Coconut Oil, Corn Starch, Corn Syrup, Cottonseed Oil, DATEM, Dextrose, Diglycerides, Disodium Guanylate, Disodium Inosinate, Dried Chicken Broth, Edamame, Egg, Egg Whites, Eggs, Enzymes, Ferrous Sulfate, Flavorings, Flavors, Folic Acid, Garlic, Garlic Powder, Garlic Puree, Ginseng Extract, Guar, Heavy Cream, High Fructose Corn Syrup, Honey, Hydrolyzed Corn, Hydrolyzed Soy Protein, Lactic Acid, Lactic Acid Starter Culture, Malted Barley Flour, Maltodextrin, Modified Cornstarch, Modified Food Starch, Modified Tapioca Starch, Monocalcium Phosphate, Monoglycerides, Natural Flavor (Coconut), Niacin, Nonfat Dry Milk, Nonfat Milk, Oleoresin Of Paprika, Palm Canola Oil, Palm Oil, Pasteurized Milk, Pea Protein, Pecans, Phosphoric Acid, Pineapple, Pork, Potassium Benzoate, Potassium Chloride, Potassium Chloride, Potassium Iodate, Potassium Sorbate, Raisins, Red Peppers, Reduced Iron, Riboflavin (Vitamin B2), Rice Vinegar, Salt, Salted Chili Peppers, Sea Salt, Sesame Oil, Sesame Seeds, Sodium Bicarbonate, Sodium Diacetate, Sodium Erythorbate, Sodium Lactate, Sodium Nitrite, Sodium Phosphates, Sodium Propionate, Soy, Soy Lecithin, Soy Protein Concentrate, Soybean Oil, Soybeans, Spice, Spices, Sucralose, Sucrose, Sugar, Sulfites, Textured Soy Protein Concentrate, Thiamine Mononitrate (Vitamin B1), Tomato Paste, Unspecified Natural Flavors, Unspecified Spice, Vanilla Extract, Vanillin - An Artificial Flavor, Water, Wheat Flour, Wheat Gluten, Whey, Whey Protein Concentrate, White Meat Chicken, Whole Durum Wheat Flour, Yeast, Yeast Extract, Yellow Carrots

Why Clean Eating Matters

Scary Right? Did you ever stop to realize how much the average American is asking their body to process every single day?

What Can You Do About It?

Give your body a helping hand by doing a mini-detox. Or, better yet, convert to clean eating. Clean eating is so easy, yummy, and healthy. As you can see, I’ve provided an entire day of clean eating recipes for you to try out yourself.

Or, you can grab my free 4-Day Mini Cleanse to try out clean eating and give your body a break from all the preservatives, chemicals, and artificial ingredients in the Standard American Diet. You’ll feel great, and you just might decide to bust out of the SAD Diet, and adopt a clean eating lifestyle!


How to Have More Energy Every Day

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One of the most common concerns I hear from women is that they feel their energy levels are slipping lower and lower with each passing year. They ask me how they can have more energy to get through their days without feeling worn down, and blah. I mean, we all know the feeling, right?


But just because we no longer have the energy of a twenty-year old, doesn’t mean we have to resign to a life of yawning, cat-napping, and wondering if 8:00 pm is an acceptable time to go to bed (it, totally is, by the way.) 


By changing a few of your daily habits, you can have more energy every day, so that you can be more productive, and have the energy to not only do what you need to do, but also the things that bring you joy and peace like a hobby you think you don’t have time for. 


 How to Have More Energy in the Morning


Having a good start to your day is vital to having a day full of positivity and energy. Have you ever hit the snooze button so many times that you had to rush out of the house, without taking any time for yourself? Yeah, me, too. We’ve all been there. How did you feel for the rest of the day? I’m willing to bet you felt unorganized, rushed, and probably grumpy to boot. 


Starting your day off rushed sets off a domino effect that will make your entire day off kilter. This domino effect sets you up for a mumbled and jumbled sort of day. First, you don’t have time to relax and plan out your day, so you aren’t mentally prepared for the day ahead. Then, you don’t have time for a few moments of peace, so you feel anxious. Then, you don’t have time for breakfast, so you grab something you know you shouldn’t eat and dash. Then, you forget something important like your wallet or a report for work. Once you’re caught in the domino effect, it can be next to impossible to stop it from all tumbling down. 

An energetic, productive, and good-vibes day starts with a good morning. 

You Snooze You Lose 


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Resist the snooze button! I know getting up with the first alarm is pretty damn hard. But did you know that waking up and falling back asleep for a few minutes, only to wake up again zaps your energy? That little cat nap signals to your body that you are too tired to wake up. It will make you sleepier, and not just for the morning, but for the entire day. It can be hard as hell to flip this habit, but you just have to train yourself to get up as soon as your alarm goes off.

10 or 15 minutes can make or break your morning. Set your alarm 15 minutes earlier than you normally do, and make it a goal to wake up as soon as the alarm goes off.


Another benefit to waking up 15 minutes earlier is that these 15 minutes can be used as a gift to yourself—a gift of self care. Nothing zaps our energy more than stress, so beat stress to the punch by taking good care of yourself.


Easy flips to add into your morning routine to start your day off stress-free:


·     Sit up in your bed, stretch and spend 5 minutes breathing deeply

·     Write out your to-do list and get yourself psyched to cross everything off your list today

·     Get on YouTube and do a 15 minute at-home yoga sech


 Read More: How to Start Your Day Off Right with a Morning Routine

Bump Up Your Energy with Some Morning Exercise

Getting your blood pumping in the morning is one of the best ways to flip from zzzzzzzzz to energized. Taking an early morning jog may not sound appealing at 6:00, but once you get used to it, there’s no going back. If you aren’t used to exercising in the morning, start off with small attainable goals. A 5,000-step brisk walk is perfectly adequate! 

An early morning walk works double-duty toward your health and wellness goals—firstly, you get your body moving and fit, and secondly, you get to clear your mind. Win/win. During the day, we are all so busy that we forget to take time out for ourselves. If you get in the habit of exercising in the morning, you are setting yourself up for success.

Up-Level Your Morning Shower


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Let’s flip from thinking about the shower as just a time and place to get you clean and presentable to the public. Let’s make a mini spa time out of our morning shower (or evening shower—I know people have some strong opinions on if they should shower in the morning or before bed. And your opinions are valid, girl, valid.) 


Shower time is a great time to relax. Get that temperature just right and take a minute to feel the water wash over you. Water is therapeutic and does wonders for our souls. Mindfully breathe in the scents from your shampoos and soaps and give yourself some zen time. 

While you are alone with yourself, and naked, use this time to be thankful to your body. Pass no judgement on your body. Tell yourself that you are beautiful, and you are grateful for your body. Tell yourself that you are full of energy and excited for the day ahead. Get your positivity vibes flowing! You deserve to love yourself. Get in the habit of doing this every time you shower. At first, you’ll have to remind yourself, but soon it will become a habit. Starting your day off with self love and a positive outlook will boost your spirits, which in turn, will boost your energy.

If you can handle a bit of zing in the morning, consider contrast showering (which is simply switching from hot water to cold water during your shower.) Studies show that contrast showering boosts immunity, improves blood circulation, regulates body temperature, enhances lymphatic movements and deepens breathing. A cold shower also has an effect on your mood by alleviating depression and increasing energy and wellbeing. The hot water brings blood flow to the skin’s surface while the cold water brings blood flow inward to the organs. This is beneficial for detox and circulation.

Some people alternate between hot and cold water in spurts to support lymphatic drainage, such as 3 minutes of hot water, and then 3 minutes of cold. Others, however, start with a hot shower and then ease the water temperature down, ending with 30 seconds under cold water.  

How to Have More Energy with Clean Eating

Do I even have to tell you that starting your day off with a healthy breakfast is uber-important if you want to have more energy? Eat a breakfast that nourishes your body and your soul by choosing a breakfast that makes you feel proud for making a good choice first thing in the morning, is good for your health, and tastes great, so that your happy taste buds improve your mood, too. Avoid added sugar in the morning. The last thing you need is to experience a sugar crash! This is how many people zap away their energy!

Instead, aim for a breakfast that incorporates protein, as protein will fill you up so that you don’t feel hungry and start snacking before lunch. 


Here are some great clean-eating breakfast ideas.


Also, learn why you should swap your morning coffee for some matcha.


Now, eating for energy doesn’t stop at breakfast! If you bring your lunch to work, hopefully you’ve prepared a healthy, clean eating lunch the night before so that you can grab it and go!


Eating for Energy Lunch Ideas:


Spinach and Arugula Salad with Lemon Turmeric Dressing


For the salad:

2 cups baby spinach

2 cups arugula 

1 cup canned chickpeas, drained and rinsed

1 cup sprouts

2 tablespoons hemp seeds

1 avocado

sea salt and black pepper to taste


This will make enough for 2 lunch salads. Put 1 cup each of the baby spinach and the arugula in glass to-go containers, then put half of the remaining ingredients in each container. 


For the dressing:

½ cup extra virgin olive oil

Juice of 2 lemons

1 teaspoon turmeric

½ teaspoon ground ginger

sea salt and black pepper to taste

1 teaspoon honey (optional)

sea salt and black pepper to taste



Combine all ingredients in a mason jar with a lid and shake until well blended. Put a single serving in a small to-go container and dress salad just before eating it. Store remaining dressing in refrigerator for up to 2 weeks.



Veggie and Quinoa Mason Jar Lunch


1 head of broccoli, chopped

2 carrots, chopped

2 tablespoons melted coconut oil

1/2  tsp cumin

sea salt and black pepper to taste

1 lemon


Basic Quinoa Recipe

1 cup uncooked quinoa

2 cups water or vegetable broth (chicken stock works well, too)

1/2 teaspoon salt


Preheat oven to 400 degrees.



In a medium saucepan bring the 2 cups water or broth and 1/2 teaspoon salt to a boil over high heat. Add quinoa and reduce heat to low. Cover and cook for 18-20 minutes, or until all water is absorbed and the quinoa is tender. Allow to cool. Alternatively, quinoa can be made in a rice cooker, as well.



Spread chopped vegetables out on a baking sheet, drizzle with warmed coconut oil, and sprinkle with cumin, salt and pepper. Use your hands or a spatula to mix and shake baking sheet so that the vegetables are all on one layer. Bake for approximately 20 minutes. 


Depending on the size of the mason jars you use, this will make 2-3 jars. Fill each mason jar half way with quinoa. Layer on the veggies and squeeze a half a lemon over each serving of vegetables. 



How to Have More Energy Throughout the Day

Learn to Identify Your Body’s Productivity Schedule

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We are all wired differently. Some of us are naturally morning people, and some of us are night owls. Tune into your body and see when you are functioning your best.

Are you groggy in the morning, but in the late afternoon have a burst of energy? Then, try to schedule your exercise or your chores in the afternoon. Do you wake up early but feel too drained after work to accomplish anything? Use those morning hours to prep for dinner so that you can just pop it in the oven or have your slow cooker ready and full of goodness when you get home. Move your self-care time to the evening during the time you used to cook dinner. You do you.



Rule the Afternoon Slump by Being Prepared to Fight Against It


We all know what that afternoon slump feels like, when it’s about 3:00 in the afternoon, and you’re wondering how you’re going to make it to bedtime without falling asleep, face first, into your dinner. Most of us turn to coffee or sugar to get us over the hump, but let’s explore other ways to have more energy in the afternoon.


1.   Take a 5-Minute Brisk Walk


Get moving, girl! 5 minutes is all you need to get a little movement into your afternoon. This is especially important for those of us who work at a desk. If the weather permits, take a walk outside and really be in the moment. Take in the sights, sounds, and smells around you. Feel the temperature of the air. If the weather’s bad or if you don’t have access to a safe place to walk in the afternoon, walk the hallways or take a flight of stairs. Getting your body moving and your muscles warmed up will give you a burst of energy.


2.   Get Your Essential Oil Boost On


Diffuse oils that will awaken your senses and motivate you. Essential oils are a great way to shift your mood, calm or invigorate your senses, and more. For an afternoon pick-me-up try this recipe:


Click the Pic to Learn More About Essential Oils

Click the Pic to Learn More About Essential Oils

Afternoon Motivation


4 Drops Frankincense

3 Drops Peppermint

2 Drops Lemon


I love recommending this recipe because all the oils can be found in the Family Essential Starter Kit, so anyone with that introductory kit has all the oils they need, on hand, to make this oil blend themselves.



3.   Do the 5 Sense Flip


When you are feeling sluggish and disconnected, take a moment to be in the moment by using a method I call the 5 Sense Flip. Observing more of the world around you nourishes your mental state. Check in with yourself throughout the day and ask yourself if you are actually living in the moment. Living in zombie mode is one of the best ways to zap your energy! 


When you walk, feel your feet pressing into the ground, hear the sounds around you, feel the temperature of the air. Just be where you are and let all your 5 senses work for you. When you feel disconnected, a good trick is to implement the 5 Sense Flip: check in with your senses and ask yourself--What do I see? hear? smell? feel? taste? This is a great little flip to pull you out of the blah-zone and into living in the moment. Try it!


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Click the Pic for Recipe

4.    Have a Clean-Eating Healthy Snack


Of course, one of the best ways to boost your energy is to nibble on a healthy snack.

Although your body will be begging you for a caffeine injection or a sugar jolt, resist the urge, my friend. Instead, reach for some healthy, clean-eating snacks to help you fight the afternoon slump. 

Read More: How to Choose Clean Eating Snacks for More Energy


 How to Have More Energy the Next Day


Skin Brush Before Bed 


Skin brushing is easy to do, feels good and supports your lymphatic system, kidneys, and liver so that they can get to work and flush your body of toxins. This will not only make you feel healthier; it will help boost your energy. 


How to skin brush:

·     Get a skin brush (made for this purpose). They are super affordable.

·     Always brush toward your heart with the flow of the lymphatic fluid.

·     Start with the soles of your feet, move up your legs using a circular motion.

·     Brush from fingertips to shoulders, then chest toward your heart in long strokes. Use small, gentle circular strokes in your armpits.

·     Move in a circular motion counterclockwise on your stomach to respect the direction of digestion and encourage detoxification.


And there you have it! Now you know how to have more energy all day long. 


This post may be sponsored or contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a small commission, at no cost to you, if you make a purchase through a link. See my full disclosure here.


Do you feel like your energy levels are getting lower with each passing year? How do you fight the battle of the zzzzzzzzzs? Let me know in the comments below!


Clean-Eating Luscious Lemon Drops Recipe

This weekend, I’ve decided to whip up some clean-eating treats to keep my sweet tooth satisfied, and to be prepared when the urge to snack kicks in. 


And, since it’s summer, I have been craving citrus flavors. I have always loved all things, lemon, so I wanted to whip up a sweet, but clean-eating lemon treat that is anti-inflammatory, gluten-free, and contains no refined sugars. And of course, it has to be yummy, or what’s the point?


The almond flour in this recipe is a great source of protein, which means these small but mighty lemon drops will keep you feeling fuller longer, and give you a boost of natural energy.


The coconut oil is a good fat that will satisfy your cravings for sugar and fats and aids in digestion.


So, whip these up and snack guilt-free!



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Prep Time: 10 mins

Inactive Time: 50 mins

Total Time: 1 hour

Yield: Approximately 18 small Lemon Drops


  • Raw

  • Vegan

  • Anti-Inflammatory

  • Gluten-Free

  • Dairy-Free

  • No Refined Sugar


·      1 ½ cups almond flour

·      ¼ cup coconut flour

·      ¼ cup coconut oil

·      ¼ cup organic lemon juice

·      ¼ cup organic maple syrup

·      Zest of half lemon

·      ½ tsp organic pure vanilla extract

·      Dash of salt

·      ¼ cup of unsweetened shredded coconut (for garnish)



1.   Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.

2.   Add almond flour, coconut flour, coconut oil, organic lemon juice, organic maple syrup, half of the lemon zest (reserve other half for optional garnish), organic vanilla extract, and salt to a food processor or blender (on pulse) and blend until a smooth mixture is achieved. 

3.   Remove the mixture, put in a glass bowl and cover. Refrigerate for 15-20 minutes or until mixture achieves the consistency of raw cookie dough.

4.   Measure out small amounts of mixture with a teaspoon or melon baller. Oil your hands with a small amount of coconut oil, and form each small teaspoon of mixture into uniform balls. 

5.   Roll the balls in the unsweetened shredded coconut and the optional leftover lemon zest.

6.   Line the lemon drops on the parchment lined baking sheet and refrigerate for 40 minutes.

Enjoy! Did you give them a try? Let me know all about it! Come hang out with me online:




How to Say “No” and Why Saying "No" Will Improve Your Life

How to Say No to Overcommitting and Avoid Overwhelm

How to Say No

Most women are people pleasers who do not know how to say no. And, not only do we want to please the people in our lives, but we are also often caregivers. We want the best for our families, friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc. So, we do as much as we can for these people to keep them happy, healthy and successful. But what happens when we go too far? What happens when we are so busy saying yes to everyone around us, that we are constantly having to say no to ourselves?

We burn out. We get agitated. We get snappy. Get feel overwhelmed and depressed.

Next to your health, your time is your most precious commodity, and just like your health, you need to take care of your time. To do that, you need to prioritize your time, and you need to make your “you time” a priority as well. Make sure you are doing the things that you really want to do, rather than only the things you have to do. Now, this doesn’t mean blowing off all your jobs and commitments. It just means learning to choose what jobs and commitments are not only good for your financial wellbeing and stability, but also for your mental and spiritual wellness. And it also means learning how to say no.

Related: Improving Brain Health for Women Over 40

The Cool Stuff That Happens When You Learn How to Say No

Learning how to say no firmly yet politely is the first hurdle you’ll face when learning to stop over-committing and better prioritizing your time. There are many health and wellness benefits to learning how to say no:

Saying No Will Save You Time (Obviously)

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We all know that our time is finite, but even though your hours are limited, you are in control of how you spend your time. Yes, you have a job and commitments, but make sure you’re choosing the right commitments. Make a list, either an actual, physical list, or a mental list, and prioritize your outside commitments. 

Obviously, you need to eat and live in a home, so work will probably rank pretty high on that list, along with paying the bills and keeping the kids alive and out of danger. Work your way down until you get to the commitments that you no longer see as constructive or that bring you happiness. 

Hate going to PTA meetings even though you’ve been the PTA President since your little princess was in Kindergarten? Guess what? Someone else is waiting in the wings and will gladly take that burden onto themselves. Let them. 

Do you always cook a big family meal on Sundays and have the family come around, but lately, you wish you could go to the beach and finally relax on Sunday instead? Guess what? Your family won’t starve if you go the beach one Sunday. Heck, order them some take out if you must. But get thee to a beach! 

Don't let other people dictate how you spend your time, especially if it’s something you don’t want to do, even if---especially if—it’s something you do purely because everyone expects you to. 

Saying No Will Reduce Your Stress

Have you ever agreed to do something for someone and immediately regretted it, leading you to feel stressed about making time and taking the effort to get the requested task done? Yeah, been there, done that…a million and one times. 

Stress causes as many health problems as a poor diet. And one of the top reasons we as women feel stressed is because we are over-committed. We have to find a way to strike a balance between committing ourselves to the needs of others and taking the time to care for ourselves. 

Related: Self Care Activities to Flip a Bad Day into a Great One

Saying No Will Help You Feel Stronger and Energized

When you make yourself a priority and learn how to say no to someone else, you're actually learning how to say yes to yourself. And, if you’ve said no in a firm but polite manner, the person you let down should not begrudge you. If they do, guess what? They didn’t deserve your dedicated time in the first place. Once you learn how to firmly and politely turn down requests for your time, you will notice that your self-confidence will get a boost. The more you practice saying no, the easier it becomes. 

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Assisting with projects you really don't have time for drains your physical and emotional energy. Pour your energy into the activities and commitments that nourish you in some way, be it financially, emotionally, or physically. This will make you more fulfilled, energized, and successful. 

Why are We So Afraid of Learning How to Say No?

Why are we so compelled to do everything that is asked of us? We even do things for other people that we put off doing for ourselves. This is crazy pants. And, what’s even crazier is that we know it’s crazy pants, but we still say yes because: 

Women Have a Natural Desire to Be Helpful and Act as Caregivers

We’re too damn nice all the time. And don’t get me wrong, being nice is a good thing. But not when it comes at the sacrifice of our own happiness and productivity. Remember, you're only one person. You can't help everyone, and the person you need to help first is yourself. 


We as women tend to give and give and give until we are empty, and then we are not only left with nothing to give ourselves, but also, with nothing to give to others as well. So, if you feel guilty turning down a request, even though you know it’s going to cause you stress and less time for yourself, remember that if you are empty, you can’t give, and that doesn’t help anyone.

We are Afraid that Saying No Will Make the Other Person Mad at Us

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We are so afraid of upsetting other people that we are willing to upset ourselves. Do you dread the possibility of making someone mad at you? Do you lose sleep worrying if you do enough for someone?


Then, congratulations! You are a people pleaser. That is great for everyone in your life, except for you!

Remember, if you politely decline someone and they react with anger, they don’t appreciate you. They just appreciate what you can do for them. 

How to Say No--Literally

"I’m sorry, but now is not a good time."

This is the classic polite decline, and that’s because it works; it’s a way to say “no” while at the same time, not make the person feel personally rejected. This phrasing demonstrates that you would have been willing to help, if you had the time, but unfortunately, you just aren’t able at this time. It’s not important to explain why it’s not a good time. You don’t owe anyone an explanation on your busy schedule (except maybe your mom or your boss--maybe.)  

"I’m not sure if I’m able to. Can I get back to you?"

If you need time to assess if you want to commit to the request or not, this is a polite way to give yourself the time to think it over. This particular phrasing implies to the listener that you would like to be helpful, but you might have other commitments and you need time to look over your schedule, or you are waiting to see if a time slot will open up in the future.

"I don’t think I’m the best person to help you with this."

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Do not agree to do something that you don’t know how to do, even if it’s embarrassing to admit that your skills fall short in a certain area. And, worse, don’t agree to do something that you aren’t skilled in and then cram to learn the skill, taking up even more of your time. If, however, you know someone who does have the ability or experience, don't be afraid to suggest pairing them up. If it's a workable match, both participants will thank you for it.

"Sorry, but I can't."

It might seem impossible to you that you’d ever be able to just straight up say that you are sorry, but you can’t. However, every time you do, saying "no,” gets a little bit easier. Remember, this is the most direct response you can give to someone who is asking for help.


So, Just Say No

Learning how to say no probably won’t come naturally to you at first. For some people, it will always be a struggle, but you are given only a finite amount of time, and you need to take care of your own health and wellness. You are not required to help everyone with every request they make of you. 

Remember, saying no does not make you a bad or selfish person. And when you focus on being productive for yourself, it generally makes you healthier and happier. 

Do you find it hard to say no? Let us know in the comments.

Review: Miracle-Gro Twelve Indoor Growing System

Miracle Gro Twelve Review

40yearflip’s Review of The Miracle-Gro Twelve Indoor Growing System

I came home the other day to a huge package from Influenster and inside was this super cool MiracleGro Twelve from MiracleGro. They sent me this amazing indoor growing system for free, so I could test it out and let you all know exactly what I think of it.

The MiracleGro Twelve system is available on Amazon.com.

Size: First off, as I mentioned it comes in a huge box. This isn’t your little counter-top herb garden, this is a side table morphed with a water-based growing system, so you can actually grow a mini garden, right in your kitchen! It’s compact though, so it doesn’t take up too much space. I have a medium-sized kitchen and I was able to comfortable find a spot for my new indoor growing system.

Related: Is FabFitFun Worth it for Women Over 40

Set up: It claimed that I would be able to set the system up in 20 min. I was skeptical, but I timed it, and it really did take 20 minutes (23, but who’s counting! lol) If I can set it up, anyone can. It was really a matter of 8 screws, and the rest just popped together. Some of the screws were difficult to access, so I had to flip the system upside down, however, it’s neither too heavy nor too large, so I was able to put it together without much trouble on my own.

App: The app helps you set it up, giving detailed, step-by-step instructions that are super easy to follow. And, then it syncs to your phone, so you can control the system from your smart phone. It will tell you when your plants need to be watered, it automatically schedules the growing light, and it tells you when to add nutrients. It also will tell you when your plants are mature and ready to harvest. 

The light is quite bright, so if you need to, you can override the automatic light cycle or change the light schedule to fit your schedule.

The app has you input which exact plants or seeds you’ve planted so that it can send your automatic updates on how your plants should be progressing, when each individual plant should be harvested or pruned, and when you should add in nutrients or water. So cool!

My Garden: I decided to start with small plants from my local garden shop. I got basil, rosemary, yellow cherry tomatoes, and mustard greens. Planting them in the system took like 5 minutes. I can’t wait to have a continuing supply of fresh herbs, tomatoes, and salad greens, growing right in my kitchen. This is a food lover’s dream, right? 

Related: Clean Eating Breakfast Tips and Recipes

I’ll be updating the progress in my stories on Instagram, so keep an eye out! Fingers crossed that I suddenly grow green thumbs, or this this is foolproof. Because I really want to be an indoor growing system to table kind of girl! lol

Get the Miracle-Gro Twelve Indoor Growing System at Amazon.com.

Are we friends on Instagram? Facebook? If not, come and join me and use the hashtag #40yearflip, so I can see you and hang out together. Don’t forget to keep an eye out for my updates in stories to see if I’m able to keep my plants alive. I don’t have the best track record, but I have high hopes for this system!

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Is FabFitFun Worth it for Women Over 40?

One question I get a lot is if I think FabFitFun is worth it for women over 40!

I sort of (and by that I mean absolutely) have an obsession with subscription boxes. I won’t even tell you how many I get, but I love them. They have made my life so much easier (I hate shopping but I love having things) and I have discovered so many great products that I never would have tried otherwise. And, they are always a bargain. Even if there’s something in the box that I don’t want or personally like, I can always find a friend (or a teenager who lives in my house) who will want it.

With that being said, what about FabFitFun, specifically? Is FabFitFun worth it for women over 40?

Of course FabFitFun is worth it (I’m sure you knew I’d say that.) I know that a lot of you have seen the boxes online, being opened up and “revealed” by younger celebrities and YouTu-lebrities, and Insta-celebrities, and you are probably thinking that it’s for a younger crowd. Especially since it’s priced at only $49.99 for a big box of goodies, but I think it’s great for us over 40s.

Why Is FabFitFun Worth it?

FabFitFun is a box that curated for women and full of beauty, wellness, fashion, and household items. Each season they send you a box full of goodies, chosen specifically for women. They box normally costs $49.99, but I have a coupon (of course, because I love coupons!) Use this link and coupon code HEATWAVE to save $10 off! So for, $39.99, you’ll get a box full of great stuff that’s guaranteed to have a retail value of over $200.

It’s a Fantastic Value

The number 1 reason is because it’s really affordable, and because, as I said, I’ve got a coupon for you! Use this link and coupon code HEATWAVE to save $10 off! Regularly $49.99 a box. My last box was filled with awesomeness that was valued at $350!

I'm really excited about the summer box. They've already released some spoilers (see below) and I think this will be the best box yet.

They Offer Customization

They now let you customize more of the products in your box than ever! With subscription boxes, you used to get whatever you got, but now you can customize and choose the products that work best for you and your lifestyle, making FabFitFun even more worth it for women over 40. Based on the spoilers for the FabFitFun Summer Box, I’m going to have a hard time choosing (and I already know that I’m going to get at least 2 boxes!)

Discovering New Products

My favorite reason for belonging to so many subscription boxes is being introduced to products and lines that I would not have sought out on my own. Many of my now favorite beauty, fashion, and household products and brands have been discovered through my subscription boxes, especially through FabFitFun. They regularly feature brands I love such as Elemis, Forero Fofo, Tulsa, Grown Alchemist, Tribe Alive, Sol de Janeiro, and so many more. And, of course, you get to try these regularly pricey brands for a fraction of their retail costs.

This lets you get items that would normally be “splurge” type items, or even products that you would usually skip over because they are out of your price range. I have been able to try so many high-cost items cheaply with FabFitFun. And, since the boxes contain wellness and beauty products such as face masks, salt baths, and essential oils, it’s a great excuse to give yourself a little pampering. And, we all deserve some pampering. Remember, one of the mottos here at 40yearflip is that self care is not selfish. Self care is essential.

Related: Self Care Activities for Women Who Have No Time for Self Care

The Edit and Add On Sales

With every box, they also run a sale that’s private and available only to FabFitFun members. This is where I buy ALL of my beauty and personal items that I don’t get in a subscription box. The prices are always amazing and they offer a wide variety of brands and goods. With the last sale, they had a wide variety of products from free samples of jarred pesto to thousand(s) dollar couches and beds, and everything in between.

Also, with the edit sales, they often feature brands that have been in current and past boxes, so if you try a product and love it, you can usually pick it up again at a great discount in an edit sale, rather than going to the mall and paying full price.

The Products are Worth It

Even though you are only spending $49.99 ($39.99 with this link and code HEATWAVE for 40yearflip friends) the products are worth so much more. Like I mentioned earlier, my last box was valued at $350. The value of the box varies based on your customization as some products have a higher retail value than others. So, at that price, if one of the products isn’t your favorite, it’s still a great value. FabFitFun guarantees that every box has a retail value of over $200.

I'm really excited about the summer box. They've already released some spoilers and I think this will be the best box yet. Here are some of the products you can choose from for your box during the customization period:

Sutra Professional Marble Mini Travel Blow Dryer – Listed Value $60

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111Skin Rose Gold Brightening Facial Treatment Mask (Set of 5) – Listed Value $160

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Spiritual Gangster Robe Jacket – $60 Listed Value (I don’t have a photo of this at this time)

Vix Blue Lotus Shaped Towel — $50 Listed Value

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A Sol de Janeiro Brazil Set : Sol de Janeiro Brazilian 4 Play Moisturizing Shower Cream-Gel – Listed Value $25 and Sol de Janeiro Brazilian Bum Bum Cream – Listed Value $20

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Summer & Rose Navy Diamond Tote – Listed Value $50

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I seriously want all of it (Except, maybe that felt board. But I know a teenager who’d want it!)

So, as you can see, FabFitFun is worth it for women over 40, and for just about woman. I think the variety and value make it ideal. Don’t forget to Use this link and coupon code HEATWAVE to save $10 off!

What’s your favorite spoiler so far? Tell us in the comments below!

This post may be sponsored or contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a small commission, at no cost to you, if you make a purchase through a link. See my full disclosure here.

Improving Brain Health for Women Over 40

Women Over 40 and Brain Health


Brain Health

Do you ever walk into the kitchen and totally forget why you went there in the first place? Ever drive to work on autopilot when you were supposed to be driving to the grocery store? Do you forget your daily tasks if you don’t write them down?


Once we hit 40, it seems that our brains aren’t always able to keep up with our busy, daily lives. Brain health is something we don’t think about too much, but maybe we should. So, let’s explore what affects brain health, and learn some easy health and wellness flips that we can incorporate into our daily lives in order to improve our brain health.


How Does Daily Stress Impact Our Brain Health?



Stress Can Damage Your Memory and Brain 


When you are stressed, do you ever get the feeling that your mind is racing from one thought to the next, and it’s hard to concentrate on just one thing? When we get stressed out, the host of chemicals that are responsible for our thoughts and memories start acting and reacting at faster rates than we are used to. This creates a sense of panic and unease in our bodies and leads us to feel emotionally overloaded. No fun.



Stress Can Change the Structure of Your Brain 

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 Stress is such a powerful set of reactions and emotions that frequent stress can actually cause your brain to shrink in size, diminishing your brain health. If you continually experience high levels of stress over a long period of time, the structure of your brain can change. Studies reveal that humans who have gone through trauma and prolonged stress can lose brain cells and their brains can actually decrease in size and slow in function. 



So, What Can You Do to Improve Your Brain Health and Combat the Effects of Stress on Your Brain?


How to Increase Your Brain Health


Luckily, there are quite a few health and wellness flips we can make in order stop or reverse the effects of stress and improve our brain health, especially for women over 40.



Get Your Dose of Omega 3 Fatty Acids


One of the most important nutrients you should be incorporating into your diet for you brain health is your Omega 3s. Omega 3 fatty acids help your brain retain its plasticity, and there help to nurture the part of your brain that stores memories. So be sure you’re getting enough Omega 3s. You can take a supplement, or eat a diet rich in the following sources of Omega 3s.

Improving Brain Health

·      Dark leafy green vegetables

·      Chia seeds

·      Flax seeds

·      Oily fishes such as salmon, mackerel, trout, and sardines

·      Walnuts

·      Fish roe (caviar)




Bust Out Those Journals


I know I’m always harping on you to start journaling for your health and wellness, and I’m about to do it again! Writing is such a beneficial exercise for your brain health, because it employs several different parts of your brain, being a physical activity, a mental activity, and one that also ignites creativity. Writing also relies on your ability to recall information—this is why it seems easier to remember things when you write them down. The more you exercise these different parts of your brain, the better your brain health will be.  



Eat Less Sugar


Sugar is one of the most addictive substances we eat. Most women will tell you that they have a sweet tooth. However, studies have been linking sugar to a decrease in cognitive function. Sugar gives us high and low energy spikes, and can lead to brain fog, confusion, and a reliance on a sugar buzz to keep us going in the middle of the day. Reducing sugar intake reduces the severity and frequency of inflammation in the body. This inflammation can lead to bloating, intestinal diseases, increase in allergies, exhaustion, and even brain fog. 


Related: How Sugar Ages You From the Inside Out and What to Do About it

Brain-Boosting Activities


Get your gears moving and your brain warmed up by stimulating your brain and improving brain health. Your brain is just like the muscles in your body, you have to use it to keep it in top shape.



Have Fun and Stimulate Your Mind with Games


Studies have shown that the mind can become sharper through the use of games such as word puzzles, Sudoku, jigsaw puzzles, and any other game that forces you to think and challenge your mind. Not only are these games fun, but they’ve been found to improve several areas of development including memory, global cognition and has even been shown to slow the effect of cognitive impairment brought on by disease. 


Get Creative

When you participate in creative activities, you brain lights up with imagination. Even if you haven’t created anything since you were a kid, you still have creativity inside of you, just waiting to bust out. Creating something, like art, writing, drawing, or crafts, not only gets your brain working to improve brain health, but people who are creative on a regular basis are happier and say that they feel more balanced after taking part in creative activities.

Need some ideas to help you get creative?

Related: Using Creativity as Relaxing Self Care For Women


Dive into a Good Book


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Reading is great way to stimulate your mind and promote brain health. Scientists have been measurably track brain health improvements in people who start to take time to read. Frequent readers develop complex social skills that people who read less might lack. Reading also engages your imagination and makes your brain create images, sounds, thoughts, and ideas it normally wouldn’t have to invent if you didn’t read. This keeps your brain working in several different ways, and helps improve brain health.  



Get More Exercise


Over the course of a person’s life, the amount of exercise they get can play a role in how their mind develops.


And, you might notice that when you exercise, you release stress. And, remember what I’ve already told you about stress and brain health. Releasing stress, especially through exercise, is one of the most beneficial activities you can do for you brain health and your overall health.





Taking time to meditate is a great way to release stress and center yourself. But, did you know that studies have shown that meditating can increase your IQ? Win, win, win. 


Learn how: How to Meditate for People Who Don’t Meditate and Didn’t Ever Think They Would

Essential Oils for Improving Brain Health

Essential oils can be used to improve brain health and increase brain function. When you inhale essential oils, the tiny particles that make up the diffused oils, stimulate your olfactory receptors. These signals go right to your olfactory cortex and the limbic area of your brain, which is the part of your brain that controls feelings, emotions, memories, hormones, attention span and blood pressure/heart rate. This is why essential oils can benefit not only your physical health, but your mental health as well.


Rosemary is an earthy and homey scent that you can pair with a citrus oil such as Wild Orange or Lemon essential oil; it clears mental confusion and soothes feelings of tension. Diffuse Rosemary while you are working or reading to heighten alertness and focus.


Peppermint is naturally refreshing and invigorating. Use peppermint to lift your mood and get you motivated to learn or work.

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Herbs for Improving Brain Health


Nutrient rich foods like herbs give your body a punch of nutrients. And, different types fo herbs have different effects on our brain activity and brain health. 



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Ginkgo Biloba


Ginkgo Biloba is used to help increase brain functionality. Ginkgo Biloba thins the blood and allows it to pass through your blood vessels more easily, even in the brain. Your brain needs a constant supply of oxygen-rich blood to function, and taking Ginkgo Biloba helps get extra blood pumping through your brain. 





Tulsi is another herb that can help you to get more blood to the brain. Be careful, however, to be sure that you avoid taking it with blood thinners or if you suffer from hypothyroidism.





Ginseng is one of the most popular herbs in the world, and it’s used by millions of people who are trying to gain a boost of energy and focus while working or studying. It helps your body to deal with stress, and it can help you to age more gracefully, so it’s always a good addition to any morning herbal tea routine as well. 



Brahmi is often associated with aiding nervous system stress. Some studies have shown that it can be used to effectively reduce anxiety and increase memory recall functions. In some case it’s had positive effects on conditions like insomnia. That makes it a great aid to cope with all sorts of issues that stem from sleep disorders. Some people report that they become slightly more creative as well.

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Clean Eating Breakfast Tips and Recipes

Clean Eating Breakfast

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One question I get asked a lot is how to manage clean eating for breakfast. So many of us are accustomed to eating processed cereals, pre-mixed yogurt and fruit with added sugars, and toasted bread products in the morning, that clean eating for breakfast sounds like a difficult challenge.

I assure you, it is not. In fact, clean eating breakfast recipes are delicious, filling, and satisfying. And, they don’t have to be complicated, especially first thing in the morning.

Clean Eating Breakfast Tip 1: Shop for Clean Foods with a List

First thing’s first, you have to have clean foods in your home in order to prepare clean foods. So that means, you’ll have to do some grocery shopping. I suggest always having a list before shopping. I don’t know about you, but once I hit 40, I had to start making lists of anything and everything I needed to actually remember.

I make monthly and weekly meal plans out with coordinating shopping lists. I send the list to myself on my phone so that I am sure to have it with me when I shop. That way, I never forget that one super-important ingredient I need, AND, just as importantly, I never overshop and blow my food budget on things I don’t really need. I try to minimize my food budget by buying exactly what I need because I hate throwing away unused produce and other grocery items; it’s a waste of money, resources, and is bad for the planet.

If you have Instacart (get $10 off with link) or Amazon Fresh in your area, I highly suggest using them. They deliver all your groceries to your door. I find ordering groceries online is much easier than shopping in the store. I just go down my grocery list, type everything I’m looking for in the search function, and choose my groceries. Then, I save my cart for next time, since there are a lot of staples that I order on a weekly or bi-weekly basis. Easy, peasy.

In the grocery store, stick to your list. Do not be tempted by the toaster pastries, the “low-carb” cereals, or the instant breakfast drinks. None of these are your friends. The foods you want are mostly located in the produce section, meat and seafood aisle, and dairy aisle (but purchasing non-dairy items.) When shopping for your clean eating breakfasts, you want to purchase foods that are unprocessed, without any added sugar, are gluten free and dairy-free.

Foods to Avoid:

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·      Added sugar and artificial sweeteners  

·      Alcohol

·      Corn (grain)

·      Dairy

·      Gluten/Wheat

·      Nitrates (lunch meats)

·      Processed foods

·      Processed meats (sausages, hot dogs, etc)

·      Soft drinks

·      Soy products

·      White potatoes

·      Yeast (bread, cakes, etc)

Clean Eating Breakfast Tip 2: Prepare as Much as Possible the Night Before

You already know how important it is to have a morning routine, right? So that you start your day off in a peaceful and organized manner that, hopefully, will set the tone for your day. If you are pressed for time in the morning, and who isn’t, prepare as much of your clean eating breakfast foods in the evening the night before and stored in mason jars. If you don’t have a supply of mason jars, get some! They are so handy and can replace a lot of single-use and multi-use plastics in your home. Get a variety of sizes for different needs:

  • Use 8 ounce jars for drinks (easy to measure out your 8 8oz cups of water a day), snacks, salad dressings and sauces. Also, 8 ounces are great for overnight oats, and chia seed puddings.

  • Use 16 ounce jars for smoothies, and the perfect lunch-sized portions of soups, and mason jar lunches.

  • Use 24 ounce jars for larger portions of soups/lunches, mason jar salads, and larger portions of smoothies (sometimes I have do this and have half in the morning and put the lid back on and take the other half with me for a mid-morning pick me up!)

  • Smoothies can be made the night before and stored in mason jars.

  • Your morning lemon water can be made either in a mason jar the night before, or it can be made in a large pitcher and last for several days.

  • Gluten-free overnight oats or chia seed puddings are prepared the evening before and soak overnight to be ready in the morning. (Again, use those mason jars!)

  • Breakfast-friendly soups (yes, I said breakfast-friendly soups!) can be prepared and stored in containers or mason jars.

  • Quinoa can be made for dinner and repurposed as a hearty gluten-free breakfast the next morning.

Related: Flip Your Mornings from Frantic to Fantastic with a Morning Routine

Clean Eating Breakfast Tip 3: Get Hydrated Before You Eat

Start every day off with a glass of lemon water before you have a single bite of your clean eating breakfast.

  • Get a big old mason jar and fill it 3/4 with filtered water.

  • Get half a lemon and squeeze it in.

  • Drink it up!

Related: Why You Should Start Your Day off With a Glass of Lemon Water

If you want to start your day off with a punch of antioxidants and a boost of energy, try incorporating matcha into your daily routine as well.

Related: Why You Should Have a Shot of Matcha in the Morning

Clean Eating Breakfast Recipes

Clean Eating Breakfast Smoothie

Clean Eating Breakfast Smoothie

1 ½ cups coconut water (or regular water if you don’t have coconut water on hand)

1 banana

1 orange, without peel

2 tablespoons chia seeds

1 handful berries

dash of turmeric

Combine all ingredients in your blender, and blend until smooth. For cold milkshake-like smoothie, add ice and blend. If necessary, add more liquid to achieve desired consistency.

Coco-Berry Chia Pudding

Serves 2

1 cup almond milk

1/2 cup of chia seeds

1 handful fresh berries (whatever is in season and on sale!)

2 tablespoons raw honey

1 teaspoon cacao powder

dash of cinnamon

dash of ground ginger

Mix the almond milk, honey, cacao, cinnamon, ginger in a bowl. Once it is well mixed, add chia seeds and mix again. Allow the mixture to set overnight. In the morning, add fresh berries of your choice.

Pepper and Egg Boats

Serves 2

2 large bell peppers (red or yellow)

4 large eggs

Sea salt and black pepper, to taste

1 avocado, sliced

Preheat the oven to 425 degrees F.

Place the peppers stem side up on a flat surface. Slice the peppers from the stem, down towards the surface. Remove the seeds. Place each pepper half on a baking pan, preferably lined with aluminum foil or parchment paper. Crack one egg into each pepper half. Season with sea salt and black pepper. Place in a hot oven. Bake for 15 to 20 minutes. Serve topped with sliced avocado.

Dairy-Free Greek Yogurt with Strawberries

Serves 1

Clean Eating Breakfast Yogurt

1 cup vanilla non-dairy Greek yogurt (I prefer coconut milk yogurt)

1 cup fresh strawberries, sliced

2 tablespoons dried, unsweetened coconut (optional)

¼ cup gluten-free granola

Add the yogurt and strawberries to a serving bowl. Top with coconut and granola.

Breakfast Quinoa

Quinoa is super-popular, and for good reason, it’s a protein that you can eat as if it were a grain. A lot of people think that quinoa is a grain, but it isn’t, it’s actually seeds. Quinoa is healthy and gluten-free, so it’s an excellent alternative to grains for those of you who are grain free. And, even if you aren’t grain free, quinoa is nutty and delicious and very satisfying.

I make a huge batch of quinoa up every week to add to my meals. I make it directly in my under-$30 rice cooker, just following the basic directions for rice and it comes out perfectly every time.

I toss it in my salads for protein. I make quinoa and veggie bowls for dinner. And, I have Breakfast Quinoa on mornings when I want something warm, homey and filling.

Breakfast Quinoa


1 1/2 c cooked quinoa (from your weekly, pre-made batch)

1/2 c halved cherry or grape tomatoes

2 c baby spinach

1 egg prepared to your liking—I like poached best

1/4 tsp salt

1/8 tsp garlic powder

1 tsp Italian herbs

2 tbsp olive oil

Put halved cherry or grape tomatoes in a deep-sided bowl and season with salt, garlic powder, and Italian herbs.

Stir in olive oil

Add warmed, cooked quinoa to bowl.

Top with spinach and egg.


And there you have lots of great clean eating breakfast ideas to try to incorporate into your clean eating menus.

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